ER Marriage Intensive {Best 2026}
The problem is most couples wait 4-7 years before reaching out for help.
By then, both partners tends to have numerous resentments and the marriage is on thin ice.
Then couples sign up for once a week couples therapy for 45-minutes, which makes progress extremely slow and many couples don't make it.
The solution is our ER Marriage Intensive. The next intensive begins 9/28/26!
Intensives give you concentrated time up front to resolve your core resentments to save your marriage.
What makes our ER Marriage Intensive unique?
1-Exclusive Focus On Resolving Resentments
One of the most unique things about the ER Marriage Intensive is our strategic focus on resolving resentments. We help couples systematically resolve one resentment at a time with our specialized method that keeps the conversations calm and constructive. Resolving resentments is an essential first step for couples because when there's active resentments nothing else goes well. It's hard to go on dates and have intimacy with someone you resent!
2-Multiple Layers Of Support
Another unique feature of ER is that it provides multiple layers of support. You'll receive intensives with your master coach to resolve your resentments, time in Dr. Wyatt's TOOLS marriage class to learn skills for a successful relationship, and access to his next marriage retreat in Denver, CO to breathe new life back into your relationship. The multiple layers of support maximizes healing and accommodates various learning styles.
3-Skills Based Not Feelings Based
A third unique feature of the ER Marriage Intensive is that it's skills based not feelings based. For example, in the TOOLS class you'll learn skills for effective communication, how to resolve conflicts, how to nurture emotional intimacy, and much more. Learning skills will help you see the path for progress.
4-Long-Term Change
A fourth unique feature of the ER Marriage Intensive is that it's three months long to ensure long-term change and accountability. In contrast, most other intensives are only three days long so long-term change is much less likely.
What are other couples saying about the ER Marriage Intensive?
What's included in the ER Marriage Intensive?
As mentioned previously, when couples first reach out for help they have multiple resentments they've been carrying around for years and at least one partner is hanging on by a thread. Therefore, starting with once a week appointments for 45-minutes barely scratches the surface and meanwhile hope continues to dwindle. That's why starting with an intensive is highly recommended to provide concentrated time to address your core resentments up front when you need help the most. Examples of core resentments include communication, affection, emotional intimacy, sex, anger, trust, in laws, parenting, finances, uneven workload, and feeling voiceless.
The next ER Marriage Intensive class begins Monday 9/28/26!
The ER Marriage Intensive includes three things:
1-Three half-day intensives with your master coach to address your core resentments followed by six weekly sessions for accountability and long-term change. The intensives are one-on-one and virtual to maximize convenience and reduce travel stress. Our approach combines the Gottman Method, EFT, and unique skills of our own we've used to help over 1000 couples.
2-Three months with Dr. Wyatt in his weekly TOOLS class that meets virtually on Monday nights at 5pm MST to learn skills for a successful marriage, such as how to fight fair, how to communicate effectively, how to nurture emotional intimacy, etc. Classes are 45-minutes and recorded in case you miss any.
3-Tickets to Dr. Wyatt's next marriage retreat in Denver to breathe new life back into your relationship and to consolidate everything you learned in ER. Those who cannot attend can receive three extra sessions from their master coach instead. The next retreat is 1/3/27.
The cost for the ER Marriage Intensive is $2997 and you can set up payments with Klarna for as low as $143/month during checkout. Some couples have used their HSA account for payment. Also, $1500 of the cost can be submitted to insurance for reimbursement, depending on your insurance, if you live in a PsyPact state listed here.
Book a free consultation below with a member of our team to learn more about the ER Marriage Intensive!
If you're ready to resolve your resentments sign up for the next ER Marriage Intensive starting 9/28/26!
Who developed the ER Marriage Intensive?
Dr. Wyatt Fisher is the creator of the ER Marriage Intensive. He has a Master's and Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, is a Licensed Psychologist, and has been in private practice since 2004 specializing in marriage counseling in Boulder, CO. He has been married since 1999 so he helps couples from both a personal and professional perspective. He's also the host of the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast, author of the Total Marriage Refresh marriage book, and developer of the Keep the Glow couples app. You can learn more about him here.
Three Common Objections To Enrolling In ER
1-We can fix this on our own.
It's easy to think you can fix your marital problems on your own. It can be difficult to reach out for help. However, if you were able to fix it on your own it would be fixed by now. You go to the mechanic for your car and the dentist for your teach, go to a marriage expert for your marriage.
2-We can't afford it.
We put our resources into what we care about most. Think about how much money you've put into your vacations, hobbies, and Starbucks over the past year. If you care about your marriage you'll put money into it. Also, if things get worse think of how expensive a separation and divorce could be!
3-We'll wait and see if things get better.
For most couples things get worse with time not better because they lack the skills to work through their resentments. Then, you can't even discuss the resentments without things going sideways. The longer couples wait, the more hopelessness sets in, making the relationship ripe for a crisis.
Book a free consultation below with a member of our team to learn more about the ER Marriage Intensive!
If you're ready to resolve your resentments sign up for the next ER Marriage Intensive starting 9/28/26!
Refund Policy: You may get a full refund within 7 days after the start of class if you're unhappy with ER for any reason minus any services received.
FAQ
1-What's your success rate for couples going through ER? If both partners are motivated and teachable, our success rate is 90% and above.
2-What happens after I enroll? Within 24 hours after you enroll you'll receive an email with steps to schedule your first intensive and directions on how to join the first TOOLS class with Dr. Wyatt. Be sure to check your spam or promotions folder in case it goes there!
3-How much time does ER require each week? It's up to you how close together you schedule your appointments. We often recommend having one half-day intensive per week for three weeks in a row followed by your six weekly 45-minute appointments. In addition, you'll be meeting with Dr. Wyatt in his TOOLS class for 45-minutes each week.
4-What happens during the intensives? The intensives are designed to help you and your partner resolve your resentments one step at a time in a calm and constructive manner with our Reunite Tool because nothing goes well in a relationship when there are active resentments.
5-What qualifications do the master coaches have? Each coach is a Certified Relationship Coach and has been through Dr. Wyatt's extensive ICF Accredited Training. They also meet with him weekly for supervision to maximize quality of care and have been working with couples for years.
6-Does my partner have to do the intensive with me? Yes, ER is designed for couples where both partners are willing to participate.
7-What if my partner and I break up while going through ER? While rare, this can occur. The refund period is 7 days after class begins and no refund is available after that. Therefore, if you break up after the 7 day refund period you can split up the remaining services for individual support and training.
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