Marriage Class (Best 2024)
The problem for most couples is they have unresolved resentments that prevent emotional and physical intimacy. Once that pattern becomes entrenched, hopelessness sets in, conflicts increase, and more resentments occur, creating a vicious cycle.
I know how this feels because my marriage used to be the same. I used to have a lot of resentments and I felt out of love with my wife. However, I also know how it feels to heal those resentments and fall back in love and I've helped thousands of couples do the same.
The solution is my ER marriage course!
In it, I will personally teach you how to resolve resentments, open up communication, and stay in love.
Aren't you sick of the vicious cycles and feelings of despair?
My ER class will heal your relationship and fill it with skills, strategies, and tools to transform your marriage.
Don't you want a relationship filled with love, communication, and intimacy?
This course will show you how to rebuild your marriage in 90 days!
The next cohort begins May 13th, 2024.
How is the ER Marriage Course unique?
1-Not Traditional Therapy. Traditional couples therapy involves both partners discussing their feelings the entire time, which often leads to complaints and defensiveness without any path forward. In contrast, ER is going to teach you skills to make real progress.
2-Not Pre-Recorded Videos. The majority of marriage classes are pre-recorded videos you must watch on your own. In contrast, ER is a live class with me through Zoom. Therefore, you'll receive live training, live practice, and live Q & A every week!
3-You Won't Be Singled Out. Many people avoid couples therapy because they don't want to be singled out by the therapist. In ER, you won't be singled out because it's a class so it feels safer.
4-You Won't Feel Alone. It's easy to feel isolated in your marriage problems because most people don't talk about them. In ER, you'll benefit from being in a class with other couples to see you're not alone in your marital journey.
5-You Won't Share Your Problems. In most marriage classes couples are required to share their personal problems with the group. In ER, you won't be required to share any problems because the focus is on learning skills to improve your marriage.
6-You Won't Feel Lost. In most marriage classes you learn information then it's up to you to figure out how to apply it to your marriage. In ER, you and your partner will be assigned to a master coach where you'll set up 8 private sessions to apply everything you're learning in ER to your specific situation.
What will you gain in the ER Marriage class?
1-You'll learn how to apply a covenant mindset to your marriage. This will also include understanding the seasons of marriage, how marriage is a living organism, and how marriage is the ultimate refinement tool.
2-You'll learn the power of owning your brokenness. Enough of the blame game. You'll learn how you're contributing to the issues in your relationship and how to take ownership for those behaviors. You'll also learn an effective tool to give and receive constructive feedback without defensiveness.
3-You'll learn how to share power. Sharing power means both you and your partner have an equal voice on all decisions that impact your marriage. Wouldn't that be nice? You'll learn skills to facilitate decision making so both you and your partner feel heard.
4-You'll learn essential tools on how to resolve resentments and conflicts. Nothing else will go well in your marriage when there are active resentments. You'll also learn effective approaches to enhance empathy and emotional intimacy in your relationship.
5-You'll learn about the main obstacles to sexual intimacy couples face and effective steps for improvement. Regular sexual contact is important for a healthy marriage, regardless of your libido, because it's important for emotional and physical bonding. You'll learn keys to enhancing this area of your marriage.
6-You'll learn how to stay in love. Couples often think if they fall out of love the relationship is over. It's not. It's only over once both partners give up. The goal is learning how to stay in love and stay in love. You'll learn step by step how to do this in your relationship.
Who teaches the ER marriage class?
I'm Dr. Wyatt Fisher and I'm the creator of the ER marriage class. I have a master's and doctorate in clinical psychology and I've been in private practice since 2004 specializing in marriage counseling. I'm also the host of the Dr. Wyatt Show marriage podcast, author of the Total Marriage Refresh marriage book, creator of the Total Marriage Refresh marriage retreat, and developer of the Keep the Glow couples app. To learn more about me click here.
What are other couples saying about the ER Marriage Class?
"I wish I could sit in this marriage class again, it was so informative. Learning about the seasons of marriage was very helpful. I would recommend this to anyone, no matter what season you are in." N.D.-previous attendant
"This was an amazing experience for me and my husband. Was easy to follow, entertaining and educational. We will forever use the tools we learned from this class. Our marriage wasn’t “in trouble” we just wanted a “refresh” after 11 years together and 5 years of marriage. Highly recommend it to any couple. It will change your marriage if you adopt the tools!" S.N.-previous attendant
"My husband and I were able to receive tips and encouragement from the comfort of our home. I appreciate you giving personal examples of challenges in your marriage. It helped us to connect with you, allowing us to open our hearts and mind. You were transparent and relatable. The format was easy to understand. Dr. Wyatt, thank you!" B.R. previous attendant
"My husband and I have a good, solid marriage, and we want to keep it that way! We try to attend marriage classes every few years! We love working on our marriage and showing our kids how amazing marriage can be! Thank you Dr. Wyatt for a great course for my husband and I! Loved it!" R.C.-previous attendant
What will you receive in the ER Marriage Class?
1-You'll receive live teaching from me for 12 weeks on how to build a successful marriage. Classes are Mondays from 5-6:30pm MST and will include time for implementation the skills learned plus Q & A. Each class will be recorded in case you miss any. (To see me for the same number of sessions in my practice would cost $4,800!)
2-You'll receive eight 45 minute coaching sessions with one of my master relationship coaches for individualized support to heal your resentments. (To purchase this many coaching sessions separately would cost $800)
3-You'll receive a PDF booklet including all the course content so you can follow along and take notes.
4-You'll receive access into my private Facebook Group for all ER students for support and community.
5-You'll receive a certificate of completion for going through the ER Marriage Class.
How much is the ER Marriage Course?
According to Forbes, the average cost of a divorce is between $15,000 and $20,000. Plus, there's the added monthly cost of child support if children are involved and most states require all assets be split 50/50. That's expensive!
The cost for the ER Marriage Class is $2,500, which is more than 50% less than what it would cost to book the same amount of sessions with me plus the 8 coaching sessions. Also, you can set up payments for as low as $225/month if you select "ShopPay" during checkout. You also may be able to use your Health Savings Account, Flexible Spending Account, or EAP program for the cost.
Email email@example.com or call 303-596-6836 for any questions you may have about the ER Course.
Refund Policy: You may get a full refund within 14 days after the first day of class if you're unhappy with ER for any reason.
1-What happens after I enroll? Once you enroll you'll receive a confirmation email within 24 hours including the link for the classes, the course schedule, and the program manual covering all the material included. Please check your spam folder in case it goes there.
2-What if my partner and I can't attend each class live? Each course is recorded so you can watch them at a later time.
3-Does my partner have to do the course with me? No, you're welcome to do the course on your own. The more you change, the more you will change your marriage.
4-What happens during the twelve 1.5 hour class sessions? Dr. Wyatt will teach you all the core skills and tools needed to heal, rebuild, and sustain a lasting marriage.
5-What happens during the eight 45 minute coaching sessions? Your master coach will help you and your partner resolve your resentments step by step.
6-Why should we enroll in this class instead of traditional therapy? For one, it's much cheaper. To see Dr. Wyatt for the same amount of sessions in his practice would cost $4,800 and to purchase 8 coaching sessions separately would cost an additional $800. ER only costs $2,500. Also, you'll experience much quicker results in this course compared to traditional therapy because of the combination of education, support, and individualized guidance.
7-Is this course helpful if we have experienced infidelity? If your marriage has experienced infidelity, first go through Dr. Wyatt's Affair Recovery Program here before enrolling in this course.
8-How often is the ER Marriage Course offered? It is offered three times a year. Once in the fall, once in the spring, and once in the summer.
9-How is the ER Marriage Course different than MSS and the Total Marriage Refresh retreat? The ER Marriage Course is around 18 hours of live teaching with Dr. Wyatt, MSS is around 8 hours of recorded teaching with Dr. Wyatt, and the Total Marriage Refresh conference is around 4 hours of live teaching with Dr. Wyatt. In addition, ER includes eight 45 minute sessions with one of Dr. Wyatt's master coaches for individualized support to heal your resentments.
10-Will I get a certificate when I'm done with the program? Yes. Once you complete all the classes for ER you'll receive a certificate of completion.