| What: Total Marriage Refresh- Couples Retreats California |
| When: Saturday 4/22/23 8am-4pm PST |
| Why: Because your marriage could use a refresh! |
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Where: The marriage retreat in California is a livestream of the live marriage retreat in CO with Dr. Wyatt. Therefore, you can watch the conference from the comfort of your living room. You also can book a local hotel room Friday and Saturday night so you can watch the conference all day Saturday from your room and have the evenings together to maximize your quality time. It's totally up to you! Also, the cost for livestream access is 33% less than the cost to attend in person! You will be watching livestream as Dr. Wyatt trains you on the top tools and steps to have a successful marriage. He's also available all day for your questions! The conference is equivalent to 6 counseling sessions valued at $1,050 The conference has been contracted several times to strengthen marriages for the United States Air Force. San Diego, CA is known for it's over 70 miles of pristine white beaches, it's incredible attractions such as the San Diego Zoo, Sea World, and Lego-land, and is often referred to as "America's Finest City." With so many great things to do combined with spectacular weather, it's hard to stay inside very long. Traveling to Coronado Island for the day is a great outing, as long as you're not scared of the extremely high bridge to get there. San Diego is also filled with lots of fine eating ranging from Mexican, wood-fired pizza, and Asian. Couples know it's a wonderful place to call home. |
"The marriage retreat was funny, engaging, and captivating and able to tie big concepts together, I really enjoyed it!" R.S- previous attendant
What does the couples retreat in California cover?
1-Establishing a Covenant Foundation
The first step is to decide if you're going to approach your marriage as a contract vs a covenant. A contract says I'm committed to you as long my needs are met and I'm in love. The covenant approach also values needs being met and being in love but it's committed to the long-haul, knowing there will be seasons of winter in marriage too.
2-Owning Your Brokenness
Building on top of a covenant foundation you must own your brokenness, which is the culmination of all your weaknesses and shortcomings. Sounds like a fun topic doesn't it? Instead of owning your contribution to the problems in your marriage, you probably excel at blaming your partner for them. This step levels the playing field so both partners are looking at their part evenly.
3-Learning to Share Power
After building a covenant foundation and owning your brokenness, it's important to share power on all decisions so you both feel like equals in your relationship. Love flourishes when equality is the spirit in the relationship. This step will help get you there.
4-Developing Emotional Attachment
The backbone of all relationships is being good friends. However, it's hard to do without a covenant foundation, owning your brokenness, and sharing power. Developing emotional attachment includes building emotional intimacy and working through resentments and conflicts constructively.
5-Cultivating Sexual Fireworks
Sex is best in marriage when partners are aiming towards a covenant foundation, owning their brokenness, sharing power, and have emotional attachment. Good sex is the result of these prior steps being in place. Cultivating mutually enjoyable sensual and sexual contact that balances the needs for both high and low libido partners is essential.
6-Staying in Love
Once you've built the previous five steps, it's essential to keep it alive through learning to stay in love. This step will teach you a powerful tool for falling back in love and staying in love long-term. The more a couple stays in love, the more their relationship naturally becomes affair and divorce proof!
"This couples retreat was extremely helpful. It was interesting, covered great concepts, and provided excellent tools. The presenter had great energy and was well spoken and kept me engaged." M.N. -previous attendant
Who's the speaker at the marriage retreat in California?
Dr. Wyatt Fisher is the creator and presenter of the Total Marriage Refresh. He has a master's and doctorate in clinical psychology, he's a licensed psychologist, and he specializes in marriage counseling in Boulder, CO. He's also the host of the Dr. Wyatt Show marriage podcast, author of the Total Marriage Refresh book, creator of the Keep the Glow couples app, and leader of the Marriage Boot Camp. Learn more about Dr. Wyatt here.
*The retreats are for all couples, whether you're dating, engaged, or married and regardless of your orientation.
Retreat Schedule:
8am-9:15am: Marriage Step One: Establishing A Covenant Foundation
9:15am-10:30am: Marriage Step Two: Owning Your Brokenness
10:30am-11:15pm: Marriage Step Three: Learning To Share Power
11:15am-12:45pm lunch on your own
12:45pm-2pm: Marriage Step Four: Developing Emotional Attachment
2pm-3:15pm: Marriage Step Five: Cultivating Sexual Fireworks
3:15pm-4pm: Marriage Step Six: Staying In Love and concluding remarks
*There's no group sharing
How do I purchase the couples retreat in California?
1-Click "Add to Cart" at the top of this page then click "Check Out" and follow the prompts. You can choose between the couples retreat or the couples retreat plus one or three coaching sessions at 50% off for immediate support with one of Dr. Wyatt's relationship coaches. The sessions occur separately from the conference through 45 minute virtual appointments with your assigned coach to help you and your partner heal your resentments. To learn more about our relationship coaching click here.
2-We'll receive notification of your purchase.
3-Within 24 hours you'll be emailed directions on how to prepare for the conference, a 40 page booklet, a link to the personality test you'll need for session three, and a link to join the conference through Zoom. If you also sign up for relationship coaching sessions your coach will reach out within 24 hours to set up the first appointment.
Be sure to check your junk folder in case the email goes there by accident.
Refund Policy:
You can receive a full refund up to 7 days before the event. After that, your two options will be to either receive the high quality recorded version of the conference or be bumped to the next event.
Please email haven@drwyattfisher.com or call 480-463-4763 with any questions you may have about the retreat.
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