ER Marriage Intensive {Best 2025}
The problem is couples have unresolved resentments that prevent emotional and physical intimacy. Once that pattern becomes entrenched, hopelessness sets in, conflicts increase, and more resentments occur, creating a vicious cycle. I know how this feels because my marriage used to be the same. I used to have a lot of resentments and felt out of love with my wife. However, I also know how it feels to heal those resentments and fall back in love and now I've helped thousands of couples do the same.
The solution is my ER Marriage Intensive!
In it, you will receive concentrated time to resolve your resentments and rebuild your relationship. ER is equal to 6 months of couples therapy in 30 days.
What is a marriage intensive?
A marriage intensive is a concentrated approach to marriage counseling that helps couples make significant progress in less time by helping them work through their resentments and rebuild their relationship.
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If you're ready to resolve your resentments and get your marriage back on track, grab your spot in ER below!
4 Ways To Know You Need A Marriage Intensive
1-You're feeling hopeless because change is not happening.
2-You're feeling alone because of unresolved resentments, walls, and needs not being met.
3-You're feeling lost because you don't know where to start to improve things.
4-You're feeling numb from the combination of feeling hopeless, alone, and lost.
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3 Things You'll Gain In The ER Marriage Intensive
1-Hope
You'll gain resolution to your resentments, which will create hope! Resentments are the root that needs to be addressed first before anything else can improve. Resentments are common for couples because you have two imperfect people living side by side, day in and day out. Therefore, feelings are going to be hurt and needs are going to be unmet. Then, you can't discuss those topics without things escalating so you become stuck. Common categories of resentments include communication, emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, conflict style, addictions, parenting, in-laws, finances, uneven workload, and feeling voiceless. Most partners have resentments in at least 3-5 of those categories each.
2-Direction
When there are lots of resentments, you start feeling lost. You don't know how to improve things and that leads to despair. Through our methods and tools, you'll resolve your resentments and learn skills for a successful relationship, which will provide direction and clarity.
3-Love
Imagine love is like water in a river. If you want the water to flow stronger, you must hike upstream and remove the debris. The debris are resentments. Therefore, once you resolve your resentments, your love will slowly increase over time and that will lay the groundwork for increased intimacy and connection.
What makes our ER Marriage Intensive unique?
1-Exclusive Focus On Resolving Resentments
One of the most unique things about our ER Marriage Intensive is our strategic focus on resolving resentments. We help couples systematically resolve one resentment at a time with our special method that keeps the conversations calm and constructive. Resolving resentments is an essential first step for couples because when there's active resentments nothing else goes well. It's hard to feel close and have intimacy with someone you resent. Therefore, the first step to improving your relationship is resolving your resentments. In contrast, other intensives spend the entire time processing feelings, which often leads to conflict without any sense of resolution or direction.
2-Multiple Layers Of Support
Another unique feature of ER is that it provides multiple layers of support. You receive a half-day intensive with me so I can get to know you and begin the process of addressing your resentments, two half-day intensives with your master coach to address your remaining resentments, four weeks in my TOOLS marriage class to learn skills, and a live marriage retreat with me in Colorado. The multiple layers of support maximizes healing and accommodates various learning styles. Other intensives only provide one level of support, which is much less effective.
3-Skills Based Not Feelings Based
A third unique feature of the ER Marriage Intensive is that it is skills based not feelings based. For example, in both the marriage retreat and my TOOLS class you'll learn skills for effective communication, how to resolve conflicts, how to nurture emotional intimacy, and much more. Learning skills will help you see the path for progress. In contrast, most intensives process feelings the entire time, which makes couples feel like they are getting nowhere.
4-Post Intensive Support
A fourth unique feature of ER is we provide 30 days of support with the option for more. This is unique because most intensives only provide services during their 2-3 day intensive and then couples are on their own, which often leads to a loss of progress. Our approach maximizes the chances of sustaining your gains for years to come!
4 Things You'll Receive In The ER Marriage Intensive
1-You'll Receive A Half-Day Intensive With Dr. Wyatt
You'll receive an initial half-day intensive with me (equal to four 45-minute sessions) so I can get to know you and begin the process of addressing your resentments. This appointment can be live in my office in Boulder, CO on Wednesdays and Thursdays or virtual on Mondays and Saturdays and can be scheduled here. You must also enroll in ER for your appointment to be considered booked.
2-You'll Receive Two Half-Day Intensives With Your Master Coach
You'll receive two half-day intensives with your master relationship coach (equal to eight 45-minute sessions) to address your remaining resentments. They are experts at helping couples address their resentments calmly and constructively with the Reunite Tool. All the master coaches have been through extensive training with me and meet with me weekly for supervision to maximize quality of care. These appointments are virtual to maximize convenience and will be scheduled after you enroll in ER between you and your coach. Evening or weekend appointments can often be accommodated if needed.
3-You'll Receive One FREE Month In Dr. Wyatt's TOOLS Marriage Class
You'll receive one month in my TOOLS marriage course to learn essential tools required to build a healthy relationship. Classes are live through Zoom on Tuesdays from 5-5:45pm MST (4-4:45pm PST, 6-6:45pm CST, 7-7:45pm EST). It's recommend to start your free month immediately upon enrolling into ER to maximize your momentum. There is no group sharing.
4-You'll Receive FREE Tickets To Dr. Wyatt's Marriage Retreat In Colorado
Fourth, you'll receive tickets to my marriage retreat in CO. The retreats are held at the Hilton Garden Inn in Arvada, CO every January, April, July, and October. The retreat is a wonderful way to give your marriage undivided attention while receiving my support all day. A recorded version is available in case you're unable to attend. There is no group sharing.
The next retreat is 10/26/25. Click the button below to learn more!
How much does the ER Marriage Intensive cost?
The cost of the ER Marriage Intensive is $143/month with installments through Klarna or $2997 total. You also can receive a paid receipt of $1000 of the cost for you to submit to insurance for reimbursement.
Book a complimentary call below with a member of my team to learn more about ER!
If you're ready to resolve your resentments and get your marriage back on track, grab your spot in ER below!
Who developed the ER Marriage Intensive?
I'm Dr. Wyatt Fisher and I'm the creator of the ER marriage intensive. I have a Master's and Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, I'm a Licensed Psychologist, and I've been in private practice since 2004 specializing in marriage counseling in Boulder, CO. I'm also the developer of the KtG couples app to help couples improve their communication. After years of working with couples in the traditional weekly 45-minute appointment model, I noticed it wasn't effective because it would take too long for couples to resolve their resentments and they would start losing hope. When couples first come in is when they need the most support because they have lots of resentments piled up, which is why 45-minutes a week is a poor match. Therefore, I started offering intensives to help couples make quicker progress in less time. Instantly, I noticed significant improvement with couples feeling hope. As a result, I developed the ER Marriage Intensive to help couples on a broader scale. To learn more about me click here.
3 Reasons Why Enrolling In ER Is A Wise Investment
1-Break divorce patterns. ER is a wise investment to break generational patterns in your family of divorce.
2-It's a gift to your kids. ER is a wise investment to create a solid home for your children, regardless of their age, because a healthy marriage is the best gift for your children.
3-Being happily married impacts everything. ER is a wise investment to become happier in your marriage because being happily married will impact every other area of your life.
3 Common Objections and Answers to Enrolling in ER
1-We've tried couples therapy before, and it didn't work for us.
This is not typical couples therapy that processes your feelings with no direction. Our intensives are strategically focused on resolving your resentments to address the root issues in your relationship in a calm and constructive manner so you can experience quick results. Our methods are skills based, not feelings based.
2-Our schedules are too busy for ER.
Not making your marriage a priority is probably the exact reason why you’re having problems. You must carve out regular time for your marriage if you want it to improve. Plus, the intensives can often be scheduled during times that work best for you.
3-We can't afford it.
Remember, if your marriage heads to separation and/or divorce the cost could be 100X greater. Also, the cost of ER is probably a fraction of what you spent to have a great wedding. Invest in ER to have a great marriage! ER will help you resolve your resentments and train you on how to develop a healthy marriage for years to come.
Refund Policy: You may get a full refund within 7 days after purchase if you're unhappy with ER for any reason minus any services you've received.
Book a complimentary call below with a member of my team to learn more about ER!
If you're ready to resolve your resentments and get your marriage back on track, grab your spot in ER below!
FAQ
1-What's your success rate for couples going through ER? If both partners are motivated and teachable, our success rate is 90% and above.
2-Are all the appointments one-on-one or group? The initial intensive with me and the two intensives with your master coach are all one-on-one. The four weeks in my TOOLS marriage course and my marriage retreat in Colorado are set up like a classroom with no mandatory sharing.
3-What happens after I enroll? Once you enroll, click here to schedule your 90-minute appointment with me as the first step.
4-How much time does ER require each week? It's up to you how close together you schedule your appointments. Keep in mind the quicker you address your resentments the quicker you'll start feeling hope.
5-What happens during the intensives? These sessions are designed to help you and your partner resolve your resentments one step at a time in a calm and constructive manner because nothing goes well in a relationship when there are active resentments.
6-Are the appointments live or virtual? The intensive with me and the marriage retreat are both live. Virtual is also available for your appointment with me and you can receive the recording of the conference if you're unable to attend live. The two half-day intensives with your Master Coach and your month in my TOOLS class are virtual to maximize convenience.
7-What qualifications do the master coaches have? Each coach is a Certified Relationship Coach and has been through my extensive ICF Accredited Training. They also meet with me weekly for supervision to maximize quality of care and have been working with couples for years.
8-Does my partner have to do the intensive with me? Yes, ER is designed for couples where both partners are willing to participate.
9-What if my partner and I break up while going through ER? While rare, this can occur. The refund period is 7 days after purchase and no refund is available after that. Therefore, if you break up after the 7 day refund period you can split up the remaining services for individual support and training.
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