Couples App For Better Communication

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Tired of the breakdown in your communication? 

Tired of holding things in?

Tired of all the conflicts and distance?

Most couples feel the same.

That's why I developed my KtG couples app.

It will help you and your partner open up your communication for more love and less fights. 

What is an app for couples?

Apps for couples are applications installed on your phone to foster your relationship by improving your communication, teamwork, intimacy, and feelings of love. 

How will the KtG couples app help? 

1 -Better Communication

The top benefit of KtG is you'll learn how to communicate more openly about what matters most in your relationship.

2 -More Love

As you both learn to fill up your partner's bucket while you stop draining it love will start increasing in your marriage.

3 -Less Fights

KtG will help you have less fights as a result of better communication and more love in your relationship.  

Keep the Glow (KtG) App for Couples 

Download in the App Store here

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How do I start using the KtG app for couples?

1 -Identify your fillers

The first thing you'll do is identify the top three fillers you need to feel loved and satisfied. Some common ones include affection, emotional intimacy, quality time, and sexual contact. These are the behaviors that fill up your love bucket.

2 -Identify your drainers

The second thing you'll do is identify your drainers. Drainers are the behaviors your partner does that makes you feel negative toward them. These behaviors drain your love bucket. Some common ones include critical, defensive, controlling, and dismissive. 

If your partner is doing an amazing job filling your bucket but also draining it there will be no positive net gain. The goal is for them to fill your bucket while they also stop draining it. Only then will your love bucket get fuller. 

3-Link your accounts

Once you've created your list of fillers and drainers you'll be prompted to link your account with your partner. Therefore, they'll need to create their list of fillers and drainers too on their phone before you can link your accounts. Then, you'll be prompted to subscribe for one, six, or twelve months. The longer you sign up for the cheaper the price. Also, all subscriptions begin with 2 weeks free to try it out! You can sign up for $9.99/month, or subscribe for six months and receive 15% off ($8.33/month=$49.99), or subscribe for 12 months and receive 30% off ($6.99/month=$83.99). Also, be sure to check out all the FREE resources under the book icon on the bottom right of the app.

4 -Start giving and receiving feedback

Next, click the airplane icon in the bottom of the app and give your partner feedback on how well they've been filling and draining your love bucket over the past week and they will do the same for you. When giving feedback you'll provide comments on what your partner did right and how they can improve and a number per item. For the fillers, +10 is the best and 0 is the worst. For the drainers, 0 is the best and -10 is the worst. Your feedback will be automatically sent to their app under the home icon on the bottom left. Both of you can then review the feedback you've received and ask clarifying questions if you have any. You'll also see a graph per filler/drainer that will illustrate if your behavior is getting better or worse over time. 

5 -Rinse and repeat

Develop a habit of giving and receiving feedback on the fillers and drainers once a week. Doing so will open up your communication to a whole new level. No longer will you be bottling things up. Moreover, you'll slowly get trained on how to become an amazing partner by learning how to fill up your partner's love bucket while you stop draining it. The goal is to get +20 and above on a regular basis for your grand total score to become an amazing partner!

Who developed the KtG app for couples?

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I'm Dr. Wyatt Fisher and I'm the creator of the Keep the Glow (KtG) couples app. I have a master's and doctorate in clinical psychology and I'm a licensed psychologist. I've been in private practice in Boulder, CO since 2004 where I specialize in couples counseling. I'm also the author of the Total Marriage Refresh marriage book and host of the Dr. Wyatt Show marriage podcast. After years of working with couples in my practice combined with my personal experience in my own marriage since 1999, I started noticing the same problems and solutions needed for couples to improve their relationship. Keep the Glow (KtG) is the result! Click here to learn more about me. 
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Why does the KtG couples app work so well? 

Everyone begins relationships feeling madly in love because their love buckets are full. We all have a love bucket inside of us and we need certain things to fill it up to make us feel loved and satisfied. Your partner is a faucet and in the beginning they were doing an amazing job filling up your love bucket because they were doing and saying all the right things. Their faucet was on full blast!

However, through the years of being together they've turned down the faucet either intentionally or unintentionally and are now barely putting any water into your love bucket. Instead, they've begun doing behaviors that make you feel negative towards them, which creates a hole in the bottom of your bucket and water starts leaking out. Before long, the full love bucket that made you fall in love becomes lower and lower until eventually it runs dry, which is when couples fall out of love.

Therefore, the key to falling back in love and staying in love is to start doing the fillers your partner desires while you stop doing the drainers they dislike. Doing so consistently will make you irresistible! This may sound easy to do but often involves several learning curves. You must first learn what your partner's fillers and drainers are, then you must learn how they are defining their terms, then you must learn how to change your behavior to maximize their fillers and minimize the drainers. If you're motivated and teachable, it often takes 8-12 weeks before partners start receiving a +20 grand total score on a regular basis. However, even once you've reached that level, it's recommended to keep using the app for the duration of your relationship to keep your communication channels open and for accountability to prevent backsliding.  

Read more about how to reverse a loveless marriage here!

Please email with any questions you may have about the KtG couples app.

Dr. Wyatt Fisher

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