We need tools to maintain and repair all sorts of things in our lives. The same is true for marriage. We need tools to maintain and repair our relationship! Before going further, let's define what marriage tools are.
What are marriage tools?
Marriage tools are methods developed to help couples respond successfully to common marital challenges, such as conflict, communication, sharing power, and sexual intimacy.
Each tool was developed by Dr. Wyatt Fisher and is a video of him explaining the tool and demonstrating it live so you can see it in action. When purchasing, indicate which tool(s) you'd like to buy and then you'll receive an email with a private video link. Once you have the video link, you and your partner can repeatedly watch it until you gain mastery.
Marriage Tools To Better Your Relationship
Do you want deeper emotional intimacy in your marriage? If the answer is yes you need to master the Heart/Heart tool. It's designed to help couples learn how to share more openly, more regularly, and more deeply than ever before. Regardless if your natural bent is to share a lot or a little, this tool is a practical, manageable method to help both partners open up.
4-Empathy Variable Exercise Tool (for deeper empathy)
Providing empathy towards your partner is like oil in a car engine. You have to have it for things to run well. Without empathy you'll feel invalidated and disconnected. Without empathy you won't be able to effectively resolve conflicts. However, developing empathy is challenging for many. How do we do it? This tool will show you the path.
5-Marriage Huddle Tool (for better teamwork)
Do you ever notice how football teams have a huddle before every play? This gets everyone on the same page. Couples desperately need something similar. Something to get them on the same page so they can operate out of the same playbook. Doing so will help them develop a deeper sense of teamwork and this tool will show you how.
6-Compassion Chart Tool (to heal resentment)
It's a matter of time before you hurt your partner or they hurt you, whether intentionally or unintentionally. Being imperfect and living with someone imperfect leads to hurt feelings. If not addressed, hurt feelings lead to resentment, which blocks emotional and physical intimacy. This tool will help you address areas of resentment to gain more closeness in your relationship.
7-Truth Table Tool (for accurate interpretations of your partner's behavior)
The most important thing in marriage isn't necessarily your partner's behavior but how you interpret their behavior. Also, the more emotional wounds you have from your past, the more likely you will misinterpret your partner's behavior by making negative assumptions or extreme conclusions. This tool is designed to help you develop accurate interpretations of your partner's behavior based on truth, not your past.
Be sure to check out Dr. Wyatt Fisher's other resources below to better your relationship!